I am a Mother to five children. Five. You can only imagine the laundry load. In fact, I can’t remember the last time I saw the bottom of our washing basket, or if I ever have! Then, when I became a ‘Football’ Mum, well, I needed some serious cleaning ammo to tackle those grass stains and stinky socks. However, as well as having the football crazy son, we had a toddler. A deadly combination. 

Everybody knows toddlers are renownedly known for their destructive and impressively messy accomplishments. For some of those days, I didn’t know whether to cry due to the extra mess that had my name on it or to award her for her achievements. I mean, the speed they destroy and make a mess in is impressive, right? Most of my days consisted of removing grass stains from my son’s favourites football shorts and spaghetti bolognese from our walls.

The toddler and my football-crazed son weren’t the only messy folk in the house, oh no. Because my Husband and my two teenage sons were and still remain to be contenders for the award of messiest monkey in our family home. It doesn’t surprise me though because due to an article online that stated 45% of parents think that their teenagers are the messiest in the house. Whereas, research conducted by the global laundry brand ACE Clean revealed the results that 30% of you claim that your husbands are the messiest.

In our house? My Teenagers & husband are neck & neck in the messy awards. And yes, even though we have a four-year-old at home too and yes they can be messy, the ACE uncovered that only 12% considered our littlest toddlers to be the masters of the mess.

The results of this survey were surprising but I love that ACE can see the crazy side of parenting. When my youngest was a baby and a young tot, I had milestones cards. These were the obligatory “I’ve cut my first tooth” or “I sat up for the first time” milestone cards. However, ACE Clean have developed some honest and funny baby & toddler milestone cards that I reckon you guys will love and they are ones I certainly wish I had when my littlest lady was still little.

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Does your child love to wear their dinner, or some days refuse to eat anything except snacks? 

Is messy play taken too literally in your house, and has your toddler discovered splashing around in muddy puddles yet? 

When was the last time you had to scoop poo out of the bath or scrub away baby sick out of your clothes? 

Did your baby refuse to sleep through the night {again} or break the record for their longest tantrum today? 

Has your child ignored all attempts at potty training and spent the day pretending to be a dinosaur instead?

ACE Clean have the full set of milestone cards available for you to download free here and you can share your photos of using them on social media with the hashtag #ACEParent.

*This is a collaborative post.

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It’s no secret that we’re a big gaming family; I don’t think there is a day that goes by that one or more of us is on a gaming console. Of course, the children have to earn game time in our house but when I shared the news with them that we were going to be working with Xbox UK on their Minecraft Family Campaign, I honestly believe the opposite side of the planet heard their excitement. I’d be lying if I didn’t let out a little nerdy yelp too!

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Spending time together as a family is so important and it’s something that we’re guilty of not doing enough. So, when I saw a bucket list idea over on What the Redhead Said blog, I knew we had to join in & make a family bucket list of our own.

Every year we have this habit of making plans together and 9 times out of 10 they fall through. Life gets in the way or money will be short. This year, however, that will not happen! Because I plan to do as much, if not all of these amazing, fun {some on a budget, other’s we’ll save for} things on our list throughout the year.

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A few weeks ago I was sitting in a bar with one of my best friends and I don’t know how it all came about, but we started to talking about my Mum. On December 4th she will have died 3 years ago to the day. Half of me can’t believe that length of time has passed and the other half of me still thinks it’s some kind of cruel joke.

I ended up showing my friend some photos of the views from my Mums beautiful Spanish home and she recognised what my Mum called “Sallys Mountain”. Apparently, her Mum owns an apartment not far from where my Mum lived and coincidentally, where she is now interned.

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Wow, what a Halloween weekend of spooky, fun-filled celebrations. It’s been so much fun and even though right now, at this very second, I could sleep for an entire week! {Thank goodness it’s half term!} I’m glad we did everything over the past weekend, because, it’s all about making memories, right?

We have been pumpkin carving, celebrating with family, dazzled by fireworks and generally just enjoying every Halloween festivity that we could. We don’t drive, nor do we enjoy traveling far with the kids because, you know, three year old! Need I saw more. So we looked around to see what Belfast had to offer on the Halloween front and we started to plan our spooky weekend of frightful festivities.

Our first stop was a family Halloween party. Lots of amazing costumes, young and old dressed as Dracula, blood-soaked nurses, mini Frankenstein’s and adorable witches and ghosts. Everyone looked amazing and we all had the best time. We watched the fireworks, played some old-fashioned Halloween games and I honestly think my kids ate their own weight in Haribo! But it was a lot of fun and the kids loved having a late night and I have to admit, it was the most stress-free evening I had personally had in a long time.

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The next day, thanks to the clocks going back the night before we all enjoyed an extra hour in bed followed by a very slow morning and afternoon. I don’t know about the kids, but the husband and I needed it! But we got back into our Halloween fancy dress costumes {bar the husband, because, you know…bore!} and headed over to the annual Monster Mash event the Titanic slipway in Belfast City. This was out first time there and if I am honest, we should not have ever bothered. Too many crowds, not enough food stalls to meet the demand of the crowds and yeah, a very disappointing event. The kids were pretty bummed {and cold} but we made it up to them with a visit to a local Pizza hut.

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On Halloween itself, we made a trip over to my Sister in laws for the little cousins to go trick or treating together. This was Annabelle’s first-time trick or treating and she absolutely loved it. She could not have been any closer to people’s doors as they opened them and she’d shout {and jump with joy} “TRICK OR TREAT!” It was honestly, the cutest thing! All the kids had a blast and came home with the most candy-filled buckets I had ever seen!

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The evening finished off with visiting more family for great food, great company, and a pretty epic fireworks display. Needless to say on the taxi ride home we were all pretty tired. Annabelle was that deliriously tired that she was talking to us in her sleep and as the rest of us giggled it wasn’t long before we were listening to her snoring on the journey home.

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So once we got home, tucked the little sleepy tot into her bed {still dressed as a werewolf, little black nose and all} we all collapsed into a heap surrounded by buckets of candy and smiles on our faces. What an amazing Halloween! Memories were most certainly made and that’s what it’s all about, right? 

How was your Halloween?

D xx

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Building forts have to be up there with every child’s favorite past time. In fact, whatever the age, you have to admit, building dens and playing in them are pretty fun. So, when DFS sofas got in touch and challenged us to get involved in their sofa fort campaign, how could we refuse. 

We try to make time during our crazy family days to spend actual quality time together. No TV, no homework needing to be done, no tech babysitters, just good old fashioned hanging out time as a family and teaming together to make this very simple sofa fort was just what we needed.

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Quite recently, my family & I were very kindly invited along to a VIP session of the new World of Wonder activity centre in Carrickfergus {behind the Loughshore Hotel} to have fun and a cheeky viewing of the place before it opens to the public.

Hearing of this new indoor activity centre excited me, because, Carrickfergus is such a lovely town {I have childhood roots there} and I think this new indoor centre is just what the place needed. It’s also nice to have something as different and refreshing like World of Wonder to have the option to make the trip too.

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This week, my youngest son….my little dreamboat turned eight years old. Eight. It’s so hard to believe. He is no longer my little deliriously adorable boy, but a {deliriously adorable} young man who is growing up to know what he loves and wants out of life. 

His eighth birthday started with presents {naturally} and this year he asked for four things. He really wanted a Northern Ireland football kit, Christiano Ronaldo VR trainers, Fifa 16′ {which his Dad bought him} & a Gaming chair.

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As a Mum to five beautiful children {I’m biased, I know!} I have so many amazing moments of what made each of my children giggle. Whether that giggle was their first one or not, having those little snippets of time to cherish is amazing.

But for this particular post, I am going to focus on my fifth and final child’s #soundofhappy moments, because…those moments will be the last time I experience them with any of my own children. Queue a little sound of my heart breaking.

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When those words, “Mama, you’re my best friend!”, came out of the rosebud lips of my youngest daughter, my heart melted. I was lost for words and as I tried to hold back the tears, I took a deep breath and replied with “You’re my best friend too bubba”.

When you’re 3-year-old child says something like this to you it makes everything else fade into a land of insignificance. The tedious repeating of “Mama! Mama! Mama! MAMA!” asked over and over and OVER again, fades. 

Those nights when they’ve been bitten by the hyperactivity bug and make bedtime ten times harder than it should be, fades. 

When they point blank refuse to leave your local shop without an ice-cream or a slushie, even if it is raining outside, fades.

Fighting with them to get dressed, fades.

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